深情怀念
母亲一生行医，以仁心待人，帮助过许多饱受病痛、生活困难的人。曾有一位生活拮据的病人，母亲为他诊治并开好药方后，他拿出手上仅有的一点生活费，准备支付诊金和药费。母亲看到后没有丝毫犹豫，不仅没有收取诊金，连药费也一并免去。
这样的事情，在她多年的行医生涯中发生过无数次。她帮助别人，从不计较回报；别人欠她什么，她从不放在心上，但她自己却从来不愿意亏欠或麻烦别人。她总是把宽容留给别人，把责任留给自己。
她常常教导我，要永远记住别人给予的恩情。哪怕只是一点帮助，也要懂得感恩；有能力的时候，更要尽力回报。
她人如其名，不只是一个好，而是双好：一份好留给家人，另一份好给予所有需要她的人。
她不仅把我带到这个世界，也在我身体需要帮助的时候，一直陪伴、照顾和鼓励我，帮助我重新恢复健康。对我来说，她是给予过我两次生命的人。
母亲的离开来得太突然。我们总以为来日方长，以为以后还有很多时间，可以陪她吃饭、说话，听她讲过去的事情；也以为那些感谢和报答，可以等到以后再慢慢完成。
直到她离开，我才真正明白，过去那些看似平常的日子，原来都是生命中最珍贵的时光。曾经熟悉的声音，如今成为我最想再次听见的声音；曾经听过无数次的叮嘱，如今也成为我一生最珍贵的教诲。
母亲生前珍惜的亲人和朋友，我也会继续珍惜；曾经关心和帮助过她的人，我都会永远记在心里。
母亲一生信奉佛教，相信因果，也用自己的行动践行慈悲。她一生种下了那么多善因，积下了那么多善德，我深信她一定会得到好的善果，蒙佛接引，往生净土，安宁自在。
有人说，亲人离开以后，最让人难过的，不只是离别，而是有一天，再也没有人记得他的名字和故事。
妈妈，您永远不会被遗忘。
无论岁月怎样流转，我都会记得您的名字、您的声音、您的善良和您的教诲。我也会把您的故事讲给我的孩子和家里的下一代听，让他们知道，我们家里曾经有一位真正人如其名的长辈——她不只是一个好，而是双好。
她的名字叫：黄双好，别人称呼她：好姑。
我会珍惜您给予我的两次生命，照顾好家人，尽自己的能力帮助更多需要帮助的人，把您留给我们的善意继续传承下去。
妈妈，您辛苦了一辈子。现在，请放下所有牵挂，安心前行。
愿您一生种下的每一份善因，都结出圆满的善果。
慈恩永念 永怀先德
儿子泣书
二〇二六年八月
In Loving Memory
My mother practised medicine all her life, and she met everyone with a kind heart. She helped many who were ill or struggling to get by. There was once a patient who had almost nothing. After she had examined him and written out his prescription, he took out the last of his living money to pay for the visit and the medicine. She did not hesitate for a moment. She refused the fee, and she waived the cost of the medicine as well.
This happened countless times over her years of practice. She helped people without ever counting the cost. What others owed her, she never held onto; yet she could not bear to owe anyone, or to be a trouble to them. She kept the forgiveness for others, and the responsibility for herself.
She taught me, again and again, to remember every kindness I was given. Even a small help deserves gratitude, and when you are able, you repay it as fully as you can.
Her name was Shuanghao, which means twice good. She was exactly that: one goodness she kept for her family, and the other she gave to everyone who needed her.
She did not only bring me into this world. When my body needed help, she stayed beside me, cared for me, encouraged me, and helped me become well again. To me, she is the person who gave me life twice.
Her leaving came far too suddenly. We always assumed there would be time. Time to sit and eat with her, to talk, to hear her tell us about the past. We assumed the thanking and the repaying could wait, and be done slowly, later.
Only after she was gone did I truly understand that those ordinary days were the most precious hours of my life. The voice I knew so well has become the voice I most want to hear again. The reminders I heard a thousand times have become the teachings I will carry for the rest of my life.
The family and friends she treasured, I will treasure too. Everyone who cared for her and helped her, I will keep in my heart always.
My mother was a Buddhist all her life. She believed in cause and effect, and she practised compassion through her own actions. She planted so many good causes and gathered so much merit that I am certain a good fruit awaits her: that the Buddha will receive her, and she will be reborn in the Pure Land, at peace and at ease.
Someone once said that the hardest part of losing someone is not the parting itself, but the day when no one remembers their name or their story any more.
Mum, you will never be forgotten.
However the years turn, I will remember your name, your voice, your kindness and your teaching. I will tell your story to my children and to the generations after them, so they will know that our family once had an elder who truly lived up to her name. Not one good, but two.
Her name was Huang Shuanghao. Everyone called her Ho Gu.
I will treasure the two lives you gave me. I will look after our family, help as many people as I am able, and carry forward the kindness you left us.
Mum, you worked hard your whole life. Now set down every worry, and go on in peace.
May every seed of goodness you planted come to its full and perfect fruit.
Her Kindness Remembered Always
Written in tears, by her son
August 2026
